The Corridor, the Kitchen and the Lift
Where a surprising share of the work actually gets agreed, and what that means for anybody who is not there.
three things · one reached them · one with no channel at all · the room side is not counted
The three kinds, in the order they become expensive.
A meaningful proportion of decisions are settled in the ninety seconds after a meeting ends, between the room and the lift, by two people who have just realised they disagree about something.
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Those ninety seconds have no invitation, no record and no obvious name, and they are among the most consequential parts of the week.
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Why it happens there and not in the room
A meeting has an audience, and an audience changes what people are willing to say. The corridor has two people and no stakes, so the sentence that was too blunt for the room gets said there instead.
It is also the first moment anybody has had to think. Meetings are performances of thinking rather than the thing itself, and the actual reconsideration happens immediately afterwards, on foot, to whoever happens to be walking the same way. The geography is not incidental: it selects the participants.
The three places
The corridor after a meeting, the kitchen in the middle of the morning, and the walk to the lift or the station at the end of the day. Each has a different character and all three are unscheduled.
Between them they carry a great deal of what the team believes.
What gets settled there
Reversals, mostly. Somebody agreed to something in the room and has thought better of it. Also assignments, caveats, and the real view somebody holds about a piece of work.
Very little of it is written down afterwards.
Why nobody records it
Because it does not feel like a decision at the time. It feels like talking, and the participants frequently do not notice that anything was settled until somebody acts on it a week later.
Asking people to write up their corridor conversations is asking them to notice something they did not notice, which is a request that cannot be complied with even in good faith. The people involved would have to detect a boundary that does not exist for them, and then make a judgement about significance that they are in the worst position to make.
The three places differ in what they produce, which is worth separating before anybody tries to catch the output:
| Where | When | What tends to get settled |
|---|---|---|
| The corridor | Ninety seconds after a meeting | Reversals and second thoughts |
| The kitchen | Mid-morning | Assignments, and who will talk to whom |
| The walk out | End of the day | Real views about how something is going |
How it reaches the room
By diffusion. One of the two tells somebody, that person mentions it in passing, and within a day or two the room has absorbed a version of it without anybody announcing anything.
The version that arrives is usually accurate enough and never attributed.
How it reaches the person outside
It does not, unless somebody specifically decides to tell them, and nobody has any reason to, because from the inside nothing happened that would warrant a message.
This is the cleanest example of the whole problem in miniature.
The lag this produces
Somebody outside the room is frequently working from the position agreed in the meeting while everybody else is working from the position agreed afterwards. The divergence can run for a week.
When it is discovered, it looks like inattention on their part. It is not: they are correctly implementing the last version they were given, and the discovery usually arrives as a mild reproach, which is both unjust and extremely common.
What a manager can actually do
Notice when it has happened, which is mostly a matter of catching yourself. The signal is realising that you believe something you cannot remember agreeing.
When that happens, write the new position down and say where it came from.
Naming it in the room
Saying out loud, more than once, that things settled on the way to the lift have to be repeated somewhere durable. It sounds pedantic and it works slowly.
It works better from a manager than from the person it disadvantages.
The limit of policing it
You cannot forbid corridors and should not try. The conversations are useful and the informality is part of why they are useful.
What is available is a habit of restating, not a prohibition.
What to tell the person outside
That it happens, that you know it happens, and that you will not always catch it. Being told the mechanism is far more useful than being reassured that nothing was missed.
It also changes what they ask: somebody who knows about the corridor asks "has anything moved since Tuesday" rather than waiting to be told.
What this cannot resolve
The asymmetry itself. Two people walking to a lift will keep having useful conversations, and no process will make those conversations reliably reach a third person in another building.
The best available outcome is that the important ones get restated within a day or two, that the person outside knows the gap exists and asks about it, and that nobody treats the resulting divergence as carelessness on their part. That is a worse outcome than being in the corridor, and pretending otherwise helps nobody. It is simply better than the alternative of not noticing at all.